Sunday, October 14, 2007

Trapeze Swinger

Trapeze Swinger
by Iron & Wine



Please, remember me, happily,
by the rosebush laughing
with bruises on my chin, the time when
we counted every black car passing
your house beneath the hill, and up until
someone caught us in the kitchen
with maps, a mountain range, a piggy bank
a vision too removed to mention

But please remember me, fondly,
i heard from someone you're still pretty
and then they went on to say that the Pearly Gates
have such eloquent graffiti
like: “we'll meet again” and “fuck the Man”
and “tell my mother not to worry”
and angels with their great handshakes
but always done in such a hurry

and please remember me, at Halloween
making fools of all the neighbors
our faces painted white, by midnight
we'd forgotten one another
and when the morning came I was ashamed
only now it seems so silly
that season left the world and then returned
and now you're lit up by the city

so please remember me, mistakenly
in the window of the tallest tower
call, then pass us by, but much too high
to see the empty road at happy hour
gleam and resonate just like the gates
around the Holy Kingdom
with words like: “lost and found” and “don't look down”
and “someone save temptation”

and please remember me, as in the dream
we had as rug-burned babies
among the fallen trees and fast asleep
beside the lions and the ladies
that called you what you like and even might
give a gift for your behavior:
a fleeting chance to see a trapeze-
swinger high as any savior

and please remember me, my misery
and how it lost me all i wanted
those dogs that love the rain, and chasin' trains
the colored birds above there runnin'
in circles round the well, and where it spells
on the wall behind St. Peter
so bright on cinder gray in spray paint:
“who the hell can see forever?”

and please remember me, seldomly
in the car behind the carnival
my hand between your knees, you turn from me
and said the trapeze act was wonderful
but never meant to last, the clowns that passed
saw me just come up with anger
when it filled with circus dogs, the parking lot
had an element of danger

so please remember me, finally
and all my uphill clawing
my dear, but if i make the Pearly Gates
i’ll do my best to make a drawing
of God and Lucifer, a boy and girl
an angel kissin’ on a sinner
a monkey and a man, a marching band
all around the frightened trapeze-swinger

nah nah nah, nah nah nah nah …

Sunday, October 07, 2007

Partial to Butterflies

I love butterflies and pink and white and violet!


I went to Debenhams last Satrurday and they're carrying a line called Butterfly by Matthew Williamson.




It' sad because 1) I love butterflies 2) I can't afford anything in the store


Here's one of the bags that i really, really, really like...but it'll be marked as The Bag I'll Never Have...



Chocolate pleated shoulder bag

- £60.00 [GS Php 4150]

- Item No.: 0890105044

- Popper fastening

- Pleated design to outside with pink butterfly bag charm to handle

- Zip fastening compartment, zip fastening pocket, mobile phone pouch and key ring to inside -
[GS Pink butterfly design inside the bag]

- Two handles

- HWD: 24 x 36 x 14cm/9.4 x 14 x 5.5"

- 100% leather

Because I'm Always Broke

How to save $200,000 in 6 months

The Women in Red Savers find that tucking away cash is a lot easier -- and more interesting -- with an audience.

By MP Dunleavey, taken from www.MSN.com

Many years ago, when I was breaking up with my then-fiancé, I needed to find my own apartment. But I had no idea how I would be able to afford it.

The problem, plain and simple, was that I didn't have a dime in savings. OK, maybe a dime, in a dusty tray on my desk, but that was it. I hadn't even signed up for the 401(k) plan at my job.
Then one day, as if the Money Fairy had heard me crying, a credit card appeared in the mail!
The credit limit was $6,000. I felt as if someone had handed me a bag of gold. Here was my moving-out money! Here was my freedom!

And there went my financial sanity.

Caught in the debt spiral We have all heard about rising consumer debt, but the flip side of that sad story is the plunge in the national savings rate in recent years.

In a 2006 report, only about 18% of middle-class families said they had three months' expenses saved, according to the Center for American Progress, a liberal think tank in Washington, D.C.
Worse, nearly 60% of people 44 and under didn't even have $500 set aside for an emergency, according to the Federal Reserve Board's 2004 Survey of Consumer Finances.

Small wonder that many people feel they have no option but to use plastic in a crisis.

You can trace the downward spiral from there: You start with no savings cushion, you stumble into debt, and your paycheck has to stretch to make ends meet and pay off the debt, so how can you save?

Save your sanity Lindsey Garver, a graduate student in microbiology who lives near Washington, was concerned that some of the Women in Red members were so focused on paying off debt that they were overlooking the protective power of savings.

In January, she helped to launch the Women in Red Savers thread, a message-board support and discussion group for anyone who wants to save for any reason, including those who don't think they can.

Many people start at zero, Garver says, and some add only $10 or $20 a week or even each month. "Some go slower, and some go faster," she says, admitting she falls into the tortoise category.

"The main purpose of the thread is to get people excited about posting even a small amount," Garver says.

Andrea Holder, who joined in February, agrees: "With the Savers, you can say, 'I just saved $27.63!' and people will give you thumbs up. You can't even do that with your best friend."
Some people join with a finite goal: a wedding, dental work or a down payment. Some want to increase their retirement nest eggs.

But many women, Garver says, set up multiple savings accounts to cover a host of life's expenses, from holiday gifts to car insurance to property taxes to an unexpected home repair.
To save is to give yourself a margin of sanity, Garver says. "On a grander scale, it's not about being able to pay your property taxes -- it's about the security it brings. You're not worrying because you've got things covered."

Focused on the future Andrea Holder is building that peace of mind at steep odds. Holder, a waitress and hostess at two restaurants in Shelby, Mich., says she works 60 hours a week and her husband 40 hours, not just to pay off $50,000 in credit card and car debt but to save for their futures, too.

After their son was born early last year, "I had an epiphany," she says. "Wow, we're adults now; we're parents; we better get this together."
Neither her parents nor her husband's have saved enough for retirement, Holder says. "I don't want to end up like that."

Holder says that if she and her husband focused only on aggressively paying down what they owe, they could be debt-free in about three and a half years. But she didn't want to do that.
She knew they'd need a cushion to keep them afloat while they paid off their debts. "And if we're saving for those three years, the money is earning money, and by the time we retire, that adds up."

Holder set up savings accounts for a home down payment, an emergency fund, a holiday gift fund, a savings plan for their son and a vacation stash. She also opened a Roth individual retirement account and intends to save more in her company's 401(k) now that she is eligible.
Since joining the Savers, Holder says, she has paid off about $9,000 in debt and saved $2,000.
Sometimes she's discouraged that she hasn't saved more. But mainly she is amazed by the way saving has changed their lives.

Before, Holder says, she and her husband would have put many expenses on a credit card. "Now, if we need new tires, we discuss how we're going to approach it: 'OK, if we put away $20 a week, we can get them by the end of summer,' " she says.

"Instead of owing more, we can just save for it."

The secrets of savers According to Garver, about 60 women have joined the Savers since January, and altogether they have saved $200,000 and counting.

As with the Women in Red Racers, who are "racing" to pay down their debts, the Savers say community support is a big reason they keep saving.

Amanda Bellamy, an avid saver who works for the city of Mission Viejo, Calif., says she had never told anyone about all of her savings strategies and goals. "It's not the kind of thing you talk about."

The Savers do. But it's not just a cheerleading squad. Savers inspire each other by swapping all sorts of tricks and tips:

1) Divide and conquer. Many Savers swear by the power of multiple savings accounts. When funds are earmarked for, say, house repairs, you're less likely to tap them for your cell-phone bill, Garver says.

2) Let yourself "find" money. Garver says that one big surprise for women when they join the group is that "there's a lot of 'found money' out there -- money that would otherwise trickle away," she says, referring to the bits of cash that float through our lives (a refund from the telephone company, for example, or $10 you find at the bottom of your purse).
Rather than ignore a mini-windfall, she says, "Now they're excited to hang on to it."

3) Do what works. In the six months she has been monitoring the group, Garver says, she has seen people employ many different successful saving methods. There's no "right" way, she emphasizes. Some strategies:

- Set aside a fixed amount or percentage each week or each month.
- Start with a goal of saving $2,000, for example, and break that down to an amount you can manage each month.
- Save only the extras: refunds, overtime pay, interest earned, gift money, bonuses.
- Some Savers try to live on one biweekly paycheck and save all or most of the next one.

4) Don't succumb to savings blues. The trouble with saving, Garver says, is that most of the time you end up spending the savings on a designated goal. "A lot of people go through some disappointment when they see that money go," she says. "It can be a downer."

To stay on track, Garver advises, it's important to acknowledge that the money you spent was spent wisely -- and then to keep on saving.

5) Play games. The Savers I talked to emphasized that saving, especially in a group, can and should be fun.

Bellamy puts aside $5 every time her boyfriend does something sweet, such as taking her out to dinner.

My husband and I save all our $5 bills. That's our mad money.

Holder separates her spare change in different buckets, to make it easier to roll. "I think I have $100 that we can put toward our house fund."

Bellamy gets 26 paychecks a year but has learned to live on two per month, so the "extra" two checks each year go toward her car loan or other goals. Thus far, she has paid down a $13,500 loan to just $1,500. "It will be paid off in August," she says.

And last but not least:
6) Put your money on automatic pilot. The oldest new trick in this high-tech era is still one that most Savers swear by (including yours truly): Use automatic transfers to save.
That's because, as we all know, money left in your checking account is magnetically drawn to the inside of your wallet. Put it out of immediate reach.

Holder has peace of mind in the present, and she looks forward to the future: buying a home, sending their son to college and one day retiring in comfort. "You have to be able to live life," she says.

Saturday, September 29, 2007

Damned If You Do...

Damned If You Dont...

That was Chase's quip to Cuddy after House, yet again, found the missing link to a patient's illness.

And that Season 1 Episode (Damned If You Do) ended with Wilson and House sharing laughter over chinese take-out dinner on Christmas Eve.

It made me smile and anticipate the coming of the Holiday Season :)

Friday, September 21, 2007

Hairspray Toys


My Golly Gosh! A Zac Efron a.k.a. Link Larkin Doll!! What would they think of next??

Monday, September 17, 2007

Catching Up

Yes, catching up on handfuls of missing blog posts!!!

I still remember not blogging about Bohol and Singapore, sheesh....

Other more recent events are as follows

Aldrich's Birthday
My Birthday
CIO Awards Night

Bohol



I think I've mentioned it before that Bohol is better than Boracay because there are so many things to do. And i guess this comment takes into account my personal *ugh* traumatic experience in Bora. Bohol was free! I only had to pay for airfare and all other amenities were money + worry free c/o my big bro! We stayed at the Panglao Island Nature Resort (6600/person/night, dang!) and it was simply wonderful!

We also toured around the area and visited historic churches, the Sanduguan site, tarsiers, man-made forest, lunched at the Loboc river and of course, had a panoramic view of the chocolate hills!

I even liked the food in our PAL flight.. aaahh, that is the life. I wonder when i'll be rich enough to do the same for my siblings and parents? *daydreams*


STAR CRUISE

Another trip which is complements of my big bro. I'm still paying for the cruise on 5k installment per month (total 45k) but that's okay since food, pocket money, plane and hotel stay are free!

I remember that it was in the middle of the cursed May Ops Release that i had to fly out to Singapore via no less than Singapore Airlines to cruise in Super Star Virgo.

We were booked into Orchard Suites in the heart of Singapore's shopping Center - Orchard Road and stayed there for the first day. We had adjoining rooms with my brother's family so the kiddies can run in and out with ease :p. The weather in Singapore was soo humid! It even rained but it didn't stop us from going to Sentosa via the MRT in VIVO mall. We went to the aquarium and also watched the magnificent Light and Sounds show!

We were supposed to ride the train back to Vivo and then catch a taxi back to the hotel but there was just too many people. My bro rented a Starex like cab instead to take us straight back to the hotel...ah what luxury!

During the night, I met up with of my friends who are working in SG and they toured me around the place and treated me to signature yummy food in the Baywalk like area. We also took pictures with the famed Merlion and then rode a cab back home.




The next day, after a hearty breakfast buffet at the hotel's resto, we headed to the Harbour City mall where the Star Cruise boarding takes place. We were booked in Star Cruise Virgo and had 2 non-adjoining but side by side rooms. I actually like the hotel better since it was more spacious than the exact measurements in the ship's room. There was also a day when i got sea sick, haha!

Anyway, there was so much things to do! There were poolside parties, a fitness center, ice cream parlor, open and covered recreation areas, a library, magic shows, casino, etc! We also had tours for every stop that we made.

First stop was Malaysia and I chose the nature trip for my family. We were taken to a Butterfly and Insect Farm (need i express my delight?) then took a tour of the Tropical Spice Garden in Penang and even drank some spice juice on the hill top overlooking the beach :) Next stop was a Batik factory with a tour of how the intricate batik is made (clumsy ol' me bumped into one of the wooden tables while a Malaysian batik maker was carefully painting the designs, sorry!) Then the last stop was a local product shop where may dad bought exotic herbal medicine. I think that was the highlight of the trip for him.

That was for an entire day and then we went back to the ship to have dinner, sleep and crusie some more. There were 3 free resto places to choose from in the cruise, The Mediterranean (mediterranean and halal food), The Pavillion (chinese food) and Bella Vista (fine dining). We were able to try all three during our stay and there was even a gala at the Bella Vista during our last night in the ship.

Moving on, the next stop was Thailand and our 2 families took the Animal Tour in Phuket. We rode an Elephant, watched monkeys perform, window shopped, and went to a mall to buy souvenirs and pasalubong.

I wasn't able to swim or enjoy 'single' people activities since i had my period and i didn't know anyone my age. The cruise was mostly a family thing except for the one time that i watched a movie on my own - The Holiday.

After the cruise, we went back to the Orchard Hotel in Singapore and visited the nearby shopping centers. We had lunch at one of the restos in Paragon and I ordered a 'whatever' drink. It's primarily made for people who say 'whatever' or 'kahit ano' when asked what drink to order. There's no mark in the can on what flavor you'll get so its always a surprise :)

When it was finally time to go back home, i didn't want to leave at all! I wanted to stay in Singapore....it felt safe there.

August 24

This is Aldrich's birthday and we were both on leave. I prepared long and hard to get him as much of the gifts written on his wishlist. Mostly bags of different sizes ;p

We had lunch at Brazil Brazil (meat lovers delight) in Rockwell, hung around the mall, played Bowling and went back to Makati CBD for dinner @ Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf - their Eggs Ben is just divine!


Sept 8 , 10

This is my 2 day Bday celebration! On the 8th, we met up after lunch and i got 4 of my 6 gifts! Stuffed Toy, Creative Zen Stone MP3 Player, Marie Claire magazine and 1000 worth of shopping / spa.

We hung around in Glorietta, I got a new haircut from Rex @ Mary Pauline, dined @ BedSpace and had a great massage at Lotus My Massage Place in Perea. I highly recommend Hawaiian Lomi Lomi especially for those with frequent back aches while Aldrich recommends the Deep Tissue massage for sports aficionados. Even though they don't have a wet floor, their ambiance is better than TonTon's and they even have a standard foot soak before every massage. Of course, you shouldn't mind the thin bamboo walls where voices freely flow through. It's best to go at non-peak hours for maximum relaxation!

On the day of my birthday, i got 2 more of my gifts which is Gucci Envy Me perfume and a CD Organizer! We had lunch at CYMA, watched HairSpray, shopped for beauty products @ Watsons, had myself pampered up @ Piandre (mani, pedi and foot spa!). For dinner, i had chai latte and my takeout CYMA food. Ah, it was truly a wonderful day ;)

CIO Awards Night

I was able to fit in one of my old dresses - this is a personal accomplishment! The Awards night was a grand finale for the CIO commercial and video competition, value creator, business operator and people developer contributors and where girls swooned over Christian Bautista and guys ogled away at Nina. After the party at Makati Shang, Aldrich and I had a 1 hour foot
massage at TonTon's since Lotus didn't have any foot theraphy available at that time. It was heavenly too and it sent me straight to bed :)

Can i also mention that last Saturday, i finally was able to sing my stress away for 3 hours @ Red Box? I had a smile on my face after we left, now that's relaxing.

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Balanced Brain

Whoa! let's make this an excuse for my frequent indecisiveness.. especially on where to eat.. bwahahah!




Grace, you are Balanced-brained


That means you are able to draw on the strengths of both the right and left hemispheres of your brain, depending upon a given situation.


When you need to explain a complicated process to someone, or plan a detailed vacation, the left hemisphere of your brain, which is responsible for your ability to solve problems logically, might kick in. But if you were critiquing an art opening or coming up with an original way to file papers, the right side of your brain, which is responsible for noticing subtle details in things, might take over.


While many people have clearly dominant left- or right-brained tendencies, you are able to draw on skills from both hemispheres of your brain. This rare combination makes you a very creative and flexible thinker.


The down side to being balanced-brained is that you may sometimes feel paralyzed by indecision when the two hemispheres of your brain are competing to solve a problem in their own unique ways.

Monday, September 10, 2007

The Silver Club

In anticipation of my turning a year older, a friend of mine from the office sent me an email wishing me a 'Warm Welcome to the Silver Club'! I am offiicially a member today as i turned 25. Yuck i feel old!

Anyways, there's a lot to celebrate coz i got lotsa gifts! yeyyy :)

Gifts From Others
- cuddly soft stuffed toy!
- Gucci Envy Me Perfume!
- Marie Claire magazine
- Creative Zen Stone MP3 Player!
- Pod 60 CDs Organizer!
- Dinner @ BedSpace
- Lunch @ Cyma Estatoria
- 1000 pesos worth of shopping/spa money!
> Hawaiian Lomi Lomi massage @ Lotus Place
> Neckstrap for my new MP3 player
- Victoria's Secret Love Spell Spray
- Black Sports Jacket from HK
- Hong Kong T-Shirt
- Bossini V-Nech Shirt

Gifts From Me to Myself!
- Nivea Vitamin C Cream
- Maybelline Press Powder
- Maybelline Watershine Lipstick
- Maybelline SmudgeProof Mascara
- Piandre Foot Massage
- Piandre Mani and Pedi
- Chai Latte @ Coffee Bean

Yeyyy.. meron pa raw next week when my brothers arrive for my libre hehehe

I love receiving gifts!!! :)

It's back to the office tomorrow... heheh reality bites!

Sunday, September 09, 2007

Busy Relaxing...

It's my birthday tomorrow and I'm on leave! Yey! The simple joys of life :)

I'm just happy that I was able to accomplish a lot of things today -- look, look!



I'm proud of myself!

I shall now watch House.. then sleep later :)

Happy 25th Bday to me!

Monday, September 03, 2007

Before my Birthday...

Things that happened just before my birthday

1) i moved to a new team
2) i got promoted :)
3) i got 2 bonuses + a great increase!
4) i lost 20 lbs and counting
5) i started watching House
6) i subscribed to DSL
7) i offered to pay the phone bill
8) i got my highest grade in PGDM ever 3.5
9) i got involved in a non-work related project
10) i opened an online account on books
11) i dealt with my enemies through gaining a different perspective
12) i suddenly, innately knew the meaning of moderation

Saturday, September 01, 2007

Birthday Wishlist, etc

My brother asked me the Top 3 things i want him to give me for my birthday! Wow! It was a difficult, brain-racking activity but wasn't so bad after channeling all my thoughts to think of me and what i wanted.. i can't decide on a top 3 yet, so i'll list them all

Victoria's Secret Love Spell Body Spray or Gap Dream So Pink or Dream Body Mist
Hair Curler
Chai Tea Box from Coffee Bean
Colorful Mug from Coffee Bean
Relaxing / Rejuvinating Soap Bar from Lush
Body Shop Cellulite Massager (sana meron sa pinas)
Vitamin C Eye Gel / L'Oreal Eye Gel
Maybelline Make Up Remover
Anansi Boys by Neil Gaiman
StarDust by Neil Gaiman
Honeymoon by James Patterson
The Quickie by James Patterson
Some leadership book

and since we're at it, let's throw it things that I really want but can't afford
iPod / MP3 Player
Laptop
Digital Camera

What's up? How's it going?

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