Finding My Perfect Match

I just realized how complicated it is to find a perfect match or a boyfriend for keeps at least, for me.

Here's why...

I've met a bunch of nice, thoughtful and sweet guys but there are some 'requirements' that are non-negotiable for me in order for a lasting relationship to ensue or at least to keep me happy..

1) i need someone who will understand and be calm during my mood swings
2) he should also know how to react during these extreme mood shifts
3) he should not be a nag, not a lecturer, but a friend
4) he should be funny and makulit and can make me laugh
5) he should at least listen to my corny jokes
6) he should listen to me and be there for me when i feel that the world is against me
7) i need someone who appreciates me.
8) i need someone who appreciates and accepts me for who i am
9) he should not try to change me but allow me to change for myself and be there to support me
10) he shouldn't be too uptight or too image conscious
11) he should be able to handle change
12) we should at least jive in a number of our basic perspectives in life : hmmm like eating is fun?
13) he shouldn't be too serious and should be in touch with his inner child
14) but he can also be serious when the situation calls for it
15) he should be able to protect me, when crossing a street or from petty thefts or from the stupid things that make me trip...
16) he should like chocolate
17) he should like watching movies
18) should not impose or possess, but see me as a free spirt and a separate individual
19) should like talking to me and exchanging thoughts
20) oh and how can i forget! he should love me

hmmm what else? Being sweet and thoughtful is not really a requirement, but hey, my boyfriend's super sweet and thoughtful so lucky me! :-P

And all those 20 requirements are surprisingly possessed by Aldrich, no wonder he's my bf! Lucky, lucky me :)